When I’d sit down at the piano to write, my worst fear would be that I couldn’t come up with anything. The few times I did experience what I thought was “writer’s block”, I would think “Oh My Gosh I will never write again!”, which turned into “Oh well, that was a nice creative run. Too bad it’s over, forever.” and then “nothing I write was going to be any good anyway.” Very dramatic.
We write and create music because we have to. We may be good at it and feel obligated to run with this “gift”, or we may love it so much that we can’t imagine doing anything else. Either way, the idea that one day we may run out of things to write about, or that we will have written everything that there is to write, or that we may just lose that gift, is very real and, and very scary, especially if we make our livelihood as music creators.
You may or may not think it’s possible to write on demand. That is, you may or may not believe in phrases like “writer’s block” or “when the inspiration hits”. You may or may not believe you have a muse that sits in the back of your room when you are feeling the creative flow, and is on a lunch break when you’re not. Trust me, I’ve gone through all the possibilities of why I often feel like a magnet drawn to my piano and writer’s pad, yet why other times, I’d rather crawl into bed, clean my bathroom for the third time, or do my taxes before sitting at that bench with a pencil in hand. What gives? Don’t I have any control of this?
Yup. I do. And so do you.
After years of writing records, touring, and promoting said records, I used to claim that my work habits ebb and flow like the ocean being controlled by the moon (I was the ocean in this analogy). Parts of the year, I was writing pages of lyrics and music, other times, I was booking and promoting the records, and still other times, my energy was all about performances. And it usually worked out that I was only doing one at a time. Recently, however, I’ve been asked to write music for some web series, an indie feature film and a few commercials, and I’ve learned that I control what ebbs and flows. I am, in fact, the moon (sticking with the analogy). It’s when I didn’t have a choice that I chose to write. And thus, the cure for writer’s block: sit down and write, without judgement.
“The art of writing is the art of applying the seat of the pants to the seat of the chair.” ~Mary Heaton Vorse
Maya Angelou (who clearly believes in those muses) says this perfectly: “What I try to do is write. I may write for two weeks ‘the cat sat on the mat, that is that, not a rat.’ And it might be just the most boring and awful stuff. But I try. When I’m writing, I write. And then it’s as if the muse is convinced that I’m serious and says, ‘Okay. Okay. I’ll come.'”
Some helpful hints to make this actually happen:
• Don’t procrastinate. Period. Don’t clean, don’t go out, don’t watch TV. Force yourself to sit your butt down and start writing. Just because you said you would.
• You can generate inspiration, at any time. Just get into action and don’t pretend that your inspiration comes from an outside source. It doesn’t.
• Make your writing area comfortable, free of clutter, private, and quiet. Making it somewhere you want to go will help you actually go there.
• Make a routine that you can count on. Knowing that from 5-7pm every day, you’ll be sitting with your guitar, or writing lyrics, can become as habit building as eating breakfast. Like William Faulkner said: “I only write when I am inspired. Fortunately I am inspired at 9 o’clock every morning.”
• Share with someone. Telling a friend, bandmate, dentist, whatever, that you are interested in writing more often will not only get you out of your head and into the real world, but you will have someone who will check up on you. Make the request that they check in and hold you accountable to what you say you want to accomplish.
• Don’t judge yourself. Fear of failure, or the fear of producing crap, is one of the first things that repels me from sitting down and writing. All I can say, you will never know if you don’t start writing. “If I waited for perfection, I would never write a word.” (Margaret Atwood)
• Re-write something. Transcribe your favorite Beatles tune, re-write the first song you ever wrote, do anything that gets you in the mindset that you are now writing. “Never stop writing because you have run out of ideas. Fill the lacunae of inspiration by tidily copying out what is already written.” (Walter Benjamin)
• Don’t listen to your feelings. “I don’t feel like it” and “I don’t have the energy” are great cop-outs. Don’t listen! William Goldman agrees: “The easiest thing to do on earth is not write.” So just write.
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